Money is a factor for many ladies these days. Read her story below:
I am a woman who has waited long for the right man. I have found him and
we are getting married in February My dream wedding has been planned
since I was 20 and now I can transform all those imaginary plans into
reality. There is only one hitch, I am way more successful financially
than my fiancee. He is doing well for himself-averagely- but I am rich. I
know he can’t afford some things that I would like to do for the
wedding like invite some of my favourite artists to perform, buy a
designer wedding dress and give everyone generally a good time.
I am a very low key person and only popular in my industry where I work
so I’m not flamboyant in anyway. But this is my wedding, I feel like
I’ll look back and regret it knowing I could afford to do these things
but didn’t. I love my boo, we are best friends and he is the love of my
life. But...
His ego will not allow me pay for these extra things. I know if I insist
and beg and cajole he will allow me go ahead and do whatever I want to
do but is it worth it? What if he doesn’t feel comfortable on the
wedding day? what if this becomes a big problem in future. I am thinking
of both of us in this case and I’m afraid I cannot come to a conclusion
in my mind.
Forget asking my friends, they are so 2014 they think I should pay for
what I want if he can’t afford it. I want my fairy tale wedding, I also
do not want to bruise my fiancee's ego in the process.
I need a middle ground, please help!
